Lord, bless this dear person whom you have chosen to be my spouse.
May his/her life be long and blessed.
May I also become a great blessing to him/her, a sharer in all his/her sufferings and sorrows.
Make me lovable forever in his/her eyes and forever dear to him/her.
Keep me from all unreasonableness of passion and humour.
Make me humble and giving, strong, dedicated, appreciative, prudent, and understanding.
May we ever take delight in each other, according to your Blessed Word, both sharing in your divine love.